Heartbreak: Married Woman uses Husband’s Money to Sponsor and Marry her Lover
A Facebook user ‘Juliet Ikechukwu has taken to Social media to apologize and explain how she deceived her husband into funding and training her lover who she later eloped and got married to.
She wrote:
“I’m responding to my husband, the man who said; he married me, sponsored me into a nursing school, took me abroad & i bétràyéd him by processing my boyfriend’s pappers to join me in the States & got pregnant for him..
Pls, I’m not here to defend myself but tell exactly how it happened, so the world can also understand my position in the whole situation.
I had to drop out of school due to lack of finances. My parents are retired primary school teachers. During that very tough period, this guy’s mom, came to our house & told my mom she’ll wish for her son to marry me. My parents talked me into it even though they knew, i was already in a serious relationship & so much in love with my boyfriend.
I actually didn’t have much of a choice since, the guy was based abroad & also doing very well. I felt like this was a God given opportunity to eradicate p0vérty in my family. On a quest to also pls my family too. After a few chats with him, Our wedding was set in which, he came back to the country & we finalized our marriage.
Now before he traveled back, i pleaded that instead of hi, being in a haste to process my documents he should instead register me into nursing school & start processing my documents when am almost about to graduate, since it will obviously be expensive if i should school abroad & also so, it can help me get a good job when i finally join him. He was happy, proud of me & even praised me for being smart.
He finally registered me & also an apartment was rented & furnished for me to stay in, so i be comfortable while i school. Just few month before my husband went back. My boyfriend came to me & cr!ed, pleading that he was still very much in love with me.
I felt really pity for him knowing, he did nothing wrong to me & I was also still & very much & deeply inlove with him, i couldn’t resist taking him back. we started seing each other again & he even moved in with me.
So, I started asking my husband more money & complaining of financial shortages in which he always sent a huge sums. I used this monies to also register my boyfriend into an ICT learning program, so he can graduate with an international standards certificate which, can as well help him get a good job abroad.
We had it discussed & planed that, when i finally move to the states, I’ll process he’s documents while he joins me later. Actually, We saw this as a good opportunity which could change our lives. I believed it was God’s doing.
To cut the long story short. Luckily My visa was ready few months after my graduation. In which i joined my husband in the states. That same week, i immidiately started making enquiries on how i could go about to get a job.
My husband confessed how proud & happy he was to have an ambitious woman as i for a wife. He even helped me out in getting me a “work permit” & also summited my cv to several hospitals & that’s how i finally got a job..
However, i was still keeping in touch with my boyfriend. After 4yrs of living abroad, I was already well established & stable. After several trials & failures. My boyfriend’s visa finally came out. I actually had no child with my husband for 4yrs, he was worried.
We did several tests which always proved that, we’re both ok. It’s true that i was taking pills to avoid getting pregnant for him & i also denied him access to my b0dy for 6 months.
Truth is by this time, my boyfriend was already in the states. In which i finally got pregnant for him. I really didn’t care anymore, if my husband found out about us cuz i was already deeply & màdly inlove with my Finace’..
I ctually planed on revealing everything to my husband in due time & probably ask for his forgiveness. But somehow he found out on his own before i could.. it’s true I didn’t feel remorseful. But instead served him with dv0s papers. My mind was already made up.
I’m sorry to say, Our marriage from the onset was a shàm, I honestly never loved him. My heart belongs to another. I did what i did out of love, any w0màn in my shoe will do just same.
I’m just a lady who’s in love, God br me weakness that, i didn’t mean for this to happen. I’m not here to defend myself like i said but rather to apologize. I’m so sorry Rowland. You are a good man.
Even after everything i did. You still asked us to fix our marriage even when, I’m pregnant for someone els & you kept apologizing, when I’m the one that wronged you. Pls forgive me. I’m sorry that i can not stay. Pls consider my feelings too, My heart belongs to someone els. It wouldn’t be good for us.
Thanks so much for signing the dvos pappers. My Fiance’ & I are ready & willing to repay everything & even more that you’ve ever done or spend on me, pls name your price. I’m pleading with you that you kindly see me as a sister you helped out of poverty, pls let’s not be eném!s but rather be friends. I’m sure that my God will repay you & sent someone whom will love you, just like you deserve Rowland.
I know, this is not you, you’re a good man, i believe you came to soc!al média to xp0s me out of frústrat!0n & dpréss!0n. Pls, forgive me & my family. I’m so sorry😭🙏”
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